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Things Abusers Do When Theyre Gaslighting

By DomesticShelters.org
Jun 05, 2018

Things Abusers Do When Theyre Gaslighting

Convince you your memory isn’t the best
Accuse you of having no sense of humor
Make hurtful jokes or insensitive, harsh remarks
Answer, “That never happened, you’re imagining it”
Call you “ill,” “fragile,” “paranoid” or “weak”
Constantly forget the sequence of events that occurred
Ask, “Why would you get upset over something so dumb”
Say, “I didn’t say anything, you must be hearing things”
Claim you aren’t remembering things correctly
Tell you you’re overreacting
Dismiss your feelings and concerns as unimportant
Pretend they don’t understand what you said
Reply, “I don’t know what you’re talking about”
Shut you down when you try to confront their behavior
Avoid your concerns saying, “Let’s talk about that later”
Ask, “Why can’t you just get over it?”
Accuse you of being too emotional or sensitive
Downplay negative experiences saying it “wasn’t that bad”