Identifying Abuse
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What Is Sexual Abuse?
A comprehensive guide to recognizing sexual abuse and domestic violence | Sexual abuse is any unwanted sexual contact obtained by force, threats or when a victim is un... read more
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Yes, Abusive Partners Brainwash Their Victims
Abusers deliberately make their partners feel disoriented, dependent and worthless. Learn how to recover from this type of control | “I felt like he programmed me.” “... read more
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What Is Trauma Bonding?
A comprehensive guide to understanding trauma bonding | Imagine that you’re with a partner who’s abusive. They’re degrading you verbally, they’re playing psychological... read more
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10 Suggestions for Coping with Loneliness in the Pandemic
Loneliness might make you feel like calling up an ex, and when abuse was involved, this is a horrible idea | Domestic abusers isolate their partners as a controlling t... read more
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What Is Narcissistic Personality Disorder?
A comprehensive guide to help you understand narcissistic personality disorder | In this guide, we’ll talk about narcissistic personality disorder, a mental disorder t... read more
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Am I Being Abused?
A comprehensive guide to help you identify domestic violence and abuse | If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Am I being abused?” while desperately trying to convince yours... read more
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What Is Domestic Violence?
A comprehensive guide to helping you understand domestic violence and abuse | Domestic violence is not always easy to spot. It doesn’t always come with bruises or a bl... read more
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Seeing Abusers as Manipulators, Con Artists
A psychologist says there is a way to “unmask” an abuser and possibly avoid them before getting trapped | Abusers can be manipulative. They can gaslight you and make y... read more
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You Can Call a Hotline Even If You Don't Want to Leave
10 questions you can ask an advocate that have nothing to do with shelter | Contrary to what many believe, shelter hotlines are not only for people who are looking for... read more
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When Abusers Hurt Themselves to Get Victims in Trouble
Protect yourself from an abuser who self-injures to look like a victim | To dominate their partners, abusers sometimes call the police against their victims, or injure... read more
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Why Abusers May Withhold Medical Care and Medication
It’s another form of power and control when abusers prevent you from seeking medical help | Imagine the immense pain and discomfort of breaking your collarbone only to... read more
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How Abusers Speak
Listen for these words that could spell control, or much worse | We all know what sticks and stones can do, but the second part of that saying isn’t exactly true. Word... read more
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When an Abuser Controls the Story
Abusers lie about incidents before you have a chance to tell your side | For a host of reasons—shock, embarrassment, guilt, shame, safety—it’s difficult enough to come... read more
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Dating After Domestic Violence, Critical Questions to Ask
Lonely in a pandemic, domestic violence survivors face difficult choices. | With the extreme stresses of COVID-19 and social distancing, it is easy to crave a relation... read more
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How Not to Fall into a Caregiving Trap with an Abuser
Safely and discreetly getting support in quarantine and beyond | When COVID-19 social distancing guidelines first went into place in Connecticut in March, Debra Greenw... read more
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