Home Videos Common Questions I'm Ready to Leave My Abuser, Now What? I'm Ready to Leave My Abuser, Now What? A step-by-step guide to safety planning from leading domestic violence website DomesticShelters.org: when to leave, what to consider before leaving, what to take with you, what happens with kids & pets, orders of protection, where to go. Show More Show Less Like it Share it Plays 5,729 Likes 70 Receive new and helpful articles weekly. Sign up here.