Articles by Stephanie Thurrott

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  When Survivors Believe They're Responsible for Ending Abuse

  January 21, 2019 Some abusers convince survivors that abuse is their fault, and survivors take responsibility for everything | One way abusers control domestic viol... read more

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  Recording Phone Calls Can Help Prove Abuse

  December 09, 2019 Here’s what you need to know about what’s legal and admissible | Proving nonphysical abuse in court is tricky for domestic violence survivor but on... read more

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  What Is Toxic Triangulation?

  March 09, 2020 Abusers can turn a survivor’s friends, family and children against them through harmful fabrications | Some abusers use a tactic called toxic trian... read more

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  Abusers Claim 'Parental Alienation' to Gain Custody of Kids

  August 17, 2020 Some courts continue to ignore protective parents warning of abuse | Alleging parental alienation is a frightening tactic where one parent (usually... read more

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  Can a Personal Alarm Protect You?

  September 18, 2019 Maybe, and there’s more you can do to help keep yourself safe | If you’re living through domestic violence or recently escaped an abuser, you might... read more

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  Survivor: Andrea

  October 17, 2018 Mom of three finds reclaiming her life started with setting small goals | I can’t remember a time when violence and trauma weren’t part of my life.... read more

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  Signals for Safety

  September 17, 2018 How asking for “Angela” or ordering an “angel shot” can save you from dating violence | A creative plan from the UK designed to help people escape ... read more

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  When Masculinity Is Toxic

  September 04, 2019 Traits men learn as boys can be dangerous—to them, and to the women in their lives | We hear a lot about “toxic masculinity” these days—a term ofte... read more

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  Kids Caught in the Crossfire

  April 08, 2019 Abusers don’t just harm partners—kids are at risk of being abused, possibly killed  | When children live in households where domestic violence occu... read more

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  When Domestic Abuse Happens in a Polygamous Relationship

  January 22, 2020 Finding nonjudgemental support is a challenge for those in plural relationships | People in polygamous or polyamorous relationships—aka, having mor... read more

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  My 2-Year-Old Daughter Was Murdered by Her Father

  June 09, 2021 Warrior mom Jacqueline Franchetti is working to change the family court system and protect other children from the same fate | Jacqueline Franchett... read more

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  When Your Partner Asks for an Open Relationship

  April 15, 2020 Here’s how to differentiate innocuous requests from red flags for abuse | For many individuals, monogamy is the norm—one partner, one relationship ... read more

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  When All You Can Remember Are the Good Times

  October 05, 2020 After abuse, it’s time to release the memories that make you feel guilty for walking away | Domestic violence survivors often have mixed feelings a... read more

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  Gratitude Journals May Help Anxiety, Promote Sleep

  July 18, 2018 Be it on paper or in an app, being mindful of the positives can help you heal after abuse | It’s a simple act, but taking time to jot down the t... read more

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  Seeing Abusers as Manipulators, Con Artists

  December 23, 2020 A psychologist says there is a way to “unmask” an abuser and possibly avoid them before getting trapped | Abusers can be manipulative. They can gas... read more

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  Tragedy as a Catalyst for Change

  January 09, 2019 After her estranged husband killed their three daughters, Jessica Lenahan took her fight for human rights to the Supreme Court | In May 1999, Jessi... read more

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  Did Your Doctor Ask About Domestic Violence?

  April 22, 2019 The pros and cons of asking “Do you feel safe at home?" | The last time I had a mammogram, as the technician and I were finishing up, she aske... read more

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  After Domestic Violence, Kids May Cope Through Outbursts

  November 02, 2020 How to curb this behavior and help your child heal in a healthier way | Children who are exposed to domestic violence may mimic the behavior they’v... read more

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  App Aims to End Revenge Porn

  October 24, 2018 Consent from both parties is required before filming or viewing videos | Real talk: There are many people out there who like to capture their bodie... read more

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  Should Shelter Locations Be Made Public?

  September 14, 2020 Domestic violence shelters often keep their locations confidential. But some are public—and they have positive outcomes to report | When we think a... read more

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  A Shelter Just for Senior Survivors

  June 10, 2020 Director of the nation’s first elder abuse shelter talks about the unique challenges this demographic can face | Abuse is traumatic and devastating... read more

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  Survivor Tara Overcomes Abuse, Fights to Keep Her Children

  August 25, 2021 There were red flags, but her abusive partner turned on the charm | In 1996 Tara Coronado broke off an engagement with “a really nice guy” who just... read more

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  How to Call Your Lawmakers

  January 28, 2019 You want to make a difference, but you’re not sure who to call or what to say. Relax. It’s easier than you think | When there’s an issue that you c... read more

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  How Beauty Boosts Confidence

  July 24, 2019 Helping survivors shine, one lipstick at a time | When Sheryl Kurland had a tough day growing up, her mom would always say, “Sheryl, just put on a ... read more

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  States Fighting to Keep Guns Away from Abusers

  November 19, 2018 Stronger state laws help reduce domestic homicides | State gun safety laws have been shifting over the last several years, and domestic violence an... read more

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  The Fuzzy Line Between Anxiety and Depression

  March 18, 2020 It’s not uncommon for people to experience both conditions. Here’s what you need to know | People often experience both anxiety and depression. In ... read more

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  Escaping Same-Sex Abuse During Don't-Ask-Don't-Tell

  March 15, 2021 Navy Seaman Rusty Babcock risked losing his career when he left an abusive partner | For domestic violence survivors, escaping an abuser is almost ... read more

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  An Order of Protection Should Mean No Guns

  January 18, 2021 Lori Jackson Domestic Violence Survivor Protection Act would close a deadly loophole | The most dangerous time for a domestic violence survivor is ... read more

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  When Fighting Abuse Could Lead to Deportation

  November 18, 2019 New laws may scare immigrant survivors into silence | Stricter laws around immigration are making domestic violence survivors who fear deportation ... read more

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  How Workplaces Can Protect Domestic Violence Survivors

  December 02, 2020 Here’s how you can help your employees, even if they’re working from home | Due to the COVID-19 pandemic, many are working from home, and for those... read more